Friday, August 4

Some People NEVER Learn!

...in this case, I mean some person, ie: Moi.

I've religiously avoided painting my nails after a manicure, and yet here I am, after some girly impulse seized hold of me and hauled me by the scruff of my neck, fresh from a facial and a french manicure with nail art.

I do NOT have any problems with a facial (except that I think it's expensive...the spots on my face were in danger of being mistaken for traffic lights, though, so some serious action had to be taken...) but I swore I wouldn't go back for a manicure. EVER. At this particular nail salon located in Bangsar Village.

No names, but it's not like we're spoiled for choice, here :p

The facial was great. I even bought toner. This is, believe you me, unprecedented. For me, at any rate. But the scales on my face were starting to resemble the scales on a komodo.. ha.

Anyway, the nail art was crap. I was so upset, I refused to look the girl in the eye. Not only was she reluctant to remove the nail art and redo it for me, she took the easiest (and messiest) way out by wiping the surface of my already-painted nails clean of the offending art, and then repainting over it with more polish. The mess is terrible.

She did a great job on the basic polish, but I didn't like her attitude. She was apologetic, but dear God! RM74 for a french manicure is pure bullshit, especially when I can get it done faster, neater and with better nail art at my usual place in MidValley.


This is the offensively priced piece of "art"...RM4 per nail. What crap.


I do apologize for the quality of the photo, but I took this with my phone cam...


Okay I'm done bitching. This was a bloody waste of money, and in a moment of pure spite, I refused to leave a tip.

Wednesday, August 2

Which Step is the RIGHT Step?

I told Dr. Mimi last night my gut wasn't too...settled...on the prospect of this new job. And after everyone left, mom informed me I had to take Da Doll to the hospital to visit my dad (for help with homework...Mandarin). It's more than that, though. As long as he's in hospital, I'll need to send her to school. Pick her up. Something I've depended heavily on him to do.

First: my tummy tells me this job isn't the right one. Now circumstances are stopping me from being able to attend the job interview, and with my dad's doctor still not having diagnosed him on his condition, we don't know how long he'll be in there, thus making it hard for me to commit to anything (again...story of my life) that will interfere with Da Doll's school schedule.

Well, I gave the school a call, explained there'd been an emergency, and to make my apologies to the principal. I've bowed out, but said I was still interested, only that I wouldn't be able to do anything positive until next week. Maybe my tone wasn't frantic enough, I don't think the admin took me seriously.

I do realize that I am making excuses...based on some "signs" I've decided to heed. But I feel quite strongly that my gut feelings have not failed me before, and although it's almost ambivalent on this job, the extra circumstances is making my decisions swing towards the negative.

If this makes any sense.

I've lived my adult life based on signs. External indicators. Heeding the anomalies, and reacting to unusual circumstance by taking them seriously. There's Hubby, and Da Doll. Previous jobs. The Incident last year. Other forks in the road that makes up my life.

Aaaaand my dad just called. He's go on the surgery tomorrow. If you can call it that. I wonder what it's called, anyway? Whatever it is, it's on tomorrow morning, and I'm on Doll Driver Duty.

Well, I've blown it off. The ball's in their court now. I'll be told (or not) if they still want me, and can cope with having me start next week. Or not. But I'm not going to dwell on it any more. Heck, it's hard to feel regret for blowing it off at all, so I've got to wonder if this job really is for me or not.

Tuesday, August 1

Workout Quota for the day: Complete!

Long story (my favourite kind!!): I took Da Doll to Assunta to visit my dad. He checked himself in yesterday, and since her school's a short distance away from the hospital, I decided to just swing by lah.

Dad looks a bit frail, but I think that's the emetic.

Anyway, after dropping Da Doll off, I sent my car to the mechanic for a servicing. You know, standard oil change, battery check, brakes and stuff. I hope to get the car back by today, so I can drop it off for tyre balancing/alignment tomorrow. I've gotta catch my cousin's wedding this weekend, so the car's gotta be in good shape. Friday I'll send it for a wash :) Hehe.

My car is going to look better than me, I can tell you that.

Anyway, the mechanic is an old friend of my dad's, and he offered to send me home. I told him it was okay, that I'd take the cab back. I walked up to the main road, and decided: Heck with it. I might as well forget about going to the gym today, and just consider the walk home my cardio.

My mechanic is maybe about 3km away from my home. No big, as the crow flies. Too bad I ain't got wings, mutha!!! So yeah, I decided to hoof it. Stuck to the treeline. I'm not really insane, just maybe a bit whacked. It's really hot out, ya know? But the sky was nice and cloudy, not all that hazy (fairly clear, in fact!) and a lovely breeze kept me company all the way.

But oi. Walking about at 12:30 in the afternoon is still hot work lah. I think I got discouraged halfway through my journey, so I swung by the Maju Curry House for an isotonic. From there (the old MPPJ pool), the going was easier lah.

It occured to me that the difference between a walk on my crossramp and the one I just took is temperature control. And entertainment. Sure wish I had my iPod with me *sighs wistfully*...

Anyway, I'm home now and I've got two beautiful blisters blooming on the pads of my feet. The home stretch was tree-free, so am still a little light-headed. Chat friends will attest to my more-inane-than-usual chatter I think. I need a nice cold glass of water, vitagen, and 40 minutes horizontal.

Can't though. Student's here, contractors have arrived. Poop.

Monday, July 31

Close encounter with the civet kind..

K...sometime last week, I had problems sleeping because of an unnatural amount of activity on my roof. Scrabbling, chittering, dogs barking in reaction to the nocturnal activity... yup. Invasion of the Civet kind. A family of what we know as musang (which I always thought meant fox, but really refers to the civet cat) has moved into my compound.

I find that move somewhat silly, as I have 6 very predatory cats prowling the perimeter, and the houses on either side of my own are patrolled by dogs which have no compunction in eating my cats, much less the tree-hugging, fruit-loving civet cat. However, hunger is always a huge factor when an animal decides to settle on a place to live. And my house is simply surrounded by all manner of fruit trees.

Predators be damned. The bounty of fruit is lure enough that squirrels, birds and civet cats will brave my family of felines.

As I approached my front gate with a car-load of family members (sister, mother, child), we saw a little kittenish animal toddling on the grass right by where we place our trash can. Commenting on it in excited gasps and chatter (we honestly thought one of our cats had given birth, and that one of her brood had escaped our home), I hurriedly drove my car in, and walked out to take a look.

We realized it was a baby civet cat because, hey, although it's called a civet cat, it's not. A cat. It's quite distinctly NOT a cat, in fact. And I was terrified my cats would find it and kill it...The flip side to owning kick-ass felines is they attack smaller, more helpless, cute n' furry animals.

I grabbed my jacket (I was gonna sacrifice hubby's Mambo jacket to the scratches of a terrified animal, fear that!) and approached it cautiously. I talked in as soothing a tone as I could manage, and tried not to make any overtly threatening or sudden moves. Although it is just a baby, a cornered animal is dangerous, and a mere bite or scratch could potentially be deeply unpleasant.

After a while of nonsensical chattering, it started to calm down, and I believe, to actually respond to my inane conversation. It began to listen (it had been chittering fearfully the whole time) and, in fact, began to converse with me. Half of the time we spent "talking" in our own languages was mostly warnings and, from the civet, a frightened screaming to stay back. Possibly also a cry to its mother, which my sister said she'd seen cross the road. It never came back, nor approached the house to rescue its young.

Anyway, the little thing actually cocked its head to the side and stared at me cautiously. I believe, firmly, that I could have leaned down and snapped it up into my jacket with a minimum fuss... I was that close, and it was that calm. For some reason, though, after having a conversation with it? I didn't want to betray its trust by throwing my jacket over it, and possibly frightening it to hell and back.

My mom passed me some sort of vegetable to feed it to get it to come even closer, but it was too afraid to eat, and in fact backed up into the wall behind it, literally climbing it backwards and upwards, to avoid the unknown offering. I left it on the little ledge it was perched on, but naturally it was too afraid to eat. Also, my sister kept pointing out it's not a vegetarian per se, but a fruit eater. What's the diff, I wonder?

By this time, the neighbour's dogs had caught a whiff of our anxiety, and the little thing's distress, and they were barking loudly and frantically at the wall right behind it. In a panic, the little guy climbed down into the drain, and hid under the little bridge my neighbour had built to reach the garbage disposal area that he'd built into his wall.

All this while, the cats and the dogs had started to close in on the action, and we spent a few minutes chasing the cats away.

The little guy finally took the initiative to climb the slope from the drain up to the fence, and he decided to perch there for a while. We were being non-threatening, but still fascinated at the close encounter we were having with a baby civet. You have to understand, we've lived with a few adult civets, shared the fruits on our trees, and our garden with them. But we'd never seen a baby one before, and we were all enchanted :) What can I say? Jakun, kan?

The little guy eventually decided to move, but he chose to skitter along the top of our cement fence. The dogs were going crazy by now, barking like mad things, and I was afraid it would make a wrong move, and fall into the compound next door and into the waiting jaws of those crazed canines.

I'm here to vouch for the sure-footedness of even a baby civet cat. The little guy finally dropped down onto our side of the garden, where I proceeded to keep the cats away from it. It eventually climbed up the thick, mossy trunk of our rambutan tree, and I hope it got high enough to take the aerial route out of my garden. The civet family usually uses the telephone line highway.

I was definitely concerned for the little baby's life while it was on the ground. At least in the trees and onto the thin cables criss-crossing the entire neighbourhood, it would have a better chance of survival.

As I type this, my ears are listening out for any signs of animal distress and the rustle of leaves that indicates the chase is on. My felines haven't been kicking up a fuss, the dogs are silent, and the noisy little civet dude isn't making a sound. I'm going to take the combined silence as a sign that all is well, and that it'll live at least another day due to our interference.

I actually have pictures, but they were taken by my sis, and on her cam. I'll post up a picture later, if she doesn't delete it first :) Anyway, this post is as much for me as it is for you. I get very distressed thinking about the tree shrews my cats leave around, dead and mangled. This little guy was too cute. I just couldn't bear to think of it ripped up that way. I wouldn't trade my cats for anything, but they're really mean sometimes.

It's a happy memory for me right now :)

On a wayward comment...

"I get notices of you posting, but all you do is rant..."

Well, that's not a direct quote, ok? BUT YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, YA WANKER! :D

*phew*

I went back to renegotiate my hours. Talked to hubby about getting crap pay, and he, like, laughed at me. About the money thing. We both know I can't carry my own weight financially lol :) Anyway, I've paid my dues, so to speak. And in my family, the ladies have a nice, happy tradition going: The men pay for the necessities, and we'll pamper ourselves and our loved ones with the extras.

I take care of holidays, pampering sessions, activities, travel. The planning and implementing of it. He grumbles, goes along, has a good time, nags me because it's a waste of money. Vicious cycle, but if you can't unwind once in a while, it's not healthy either. Hmm.

Am I ranting? .... *think* ... No, but I am deviating :) Blahaha.

Anyway, I might get this job. I might start tomorrow (unless we can't agree on a price). If I do, I can kiss my fun-time goodbye. I accept that life and time wait for no bums. And even though I don't believe I'm in desperate need of money (or as the other term I read recently goes... "I'm not hungry enough"...), I don't want to sit around and get dangerously complacent.

I'm inherently capable of being a blight on society.

Ooo...and yikes, at that. Gotta drive down south this weekend. Cousin's wedding. I think I went overboard with the gifts. Who needs 2 wedding gifts? I dunno. I'm tempted to keep one. I love it! No, no...I shouldn't do that. What a moral dilemma! Hehe :)

Okay, done rambling. Better put this up, before I forget and shut down and not save this post and it ends up trashed. Hrm.

Friday, July 28

New Toy et al

I have a spankin' new E-MU midi Keyboard. To go along with my (legal) copy of Finale. The el cheapo version, but STILL!

I also have proof that someone played HOOKY yesterday!


Lookit that gangster glare. Yah, I took the smaller piece, more power to the hand that wields the spoon! :p



The Tabasco Tower of Happiness. Viva le Tabasco!



We figured the salt-shaker did it. Look at the inconspicuous way it's trying to hide itself!



And a li'l extra silliness: The tongue deco I had to remove. Well, it was that, or swallow it. Good thing I've got a great gag-reflex :p


I went for an interview today. I've got 'til Monday to make up my mind. Up my asking price. Back out. Talk to Hubby. Whatever. Gonna be a LONG weekend for me.

Tuesday, July 25

My new best friend, the Crossramp...

Gave my left calf a serious cramp. Or mebbe I just run funny. It's cool though, my other best friend, the jacuzzi, took care of my sore muscles.

<3!!

Monday, July 24

Hmm, this was fun.

And I'm shallow. Check it out here hehe!

On parents and role-reversals...SWMUD style.

Timestamp: 1:40pm

DadDude <say> I need to borrow your car, what time are you going to the gym?
Aariye <say> 3'ish. 4'ish....
DadDude <say> Okay, I'll be back by 3...I've got a class to teach anyways.
<DadDude> grabs the car keys from Aariye and hustles AariMom out the door.

Tick. Tock. Do a fast-forward to 3pm.

Aariye <shout> Where the fuck's my car? Where the fuck's my lunch? Hungreeeeee!!

Fast forward to 3:30pm.

Aariye <say> *calls mom's handphone* Where're you?
AariMom <say> Passing Kerinchi. Coming home soon.
Aariye <say> *grunt* ...*hangs up*

10 seconds later, phone rings. It's mom.

AariMom <say> Dad says he forgot to buy you lunch. He'll buy some now, you want?
Aariye <say> Dowan, dowan DOWAN. Bring my car back. Nuneed. I feed myself.
AariMom <say> *splutter*
Aariye <say> *grunt* ...*hangs up*

10 minutes later, I hear the car pulling up the drive. They get into the house. Dad passes by my opened door.

Aariye <nag> Very funny ah, y'all...take my car, then don't buy me lunch, THEN probably use up all my fuel. No food, no fuel, some more late for your lesson...
DadDude <say> It was your mother's fault.
Aariye <say>: *gape*
DadDude <say> Yeah, she kept making me do stuff for her. *walks off to toilet*

End conversation.

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Laughed my fat ass off after that convo. I was just enacting this little fantasy on messenger, where I gave my parents a typical lecture on irresponsible teenaged behaviour. Yah... and then I go ahead and lecture like the naggy old woman I've become. Funny. Gotta appreciate the silly moments.

ESPECIALLY when your parent takes his licks like a chastened puppy. Lol! Was I ever that pathetic back in my school days? GOD, I HOPE NOT! Lol!!!

Ugh Squared

Can anything scare a wife more than these words, hastily sent via email?

~ "We had a blow out today after we finished running our job and they were cementing the well, the wheel started to flow so we had to abandon the rig...."

Bad enough I missed his call by a hair (alright, 20 damned minutes...) Worse still to have missed it the dumbest way. My phone's bluetooth was activated, dunno why. And get this. My bluetooth headset, which I had thought was missing, and all this while was actually in the pocket of my long-forgotten Mambo hoodie which was in close proximity of the phone AND turned on...picked up the call, so of course I NEVER HEARD THE PHONE RING!

I felt awful. Logic, naturally, kicked in. If he could email, it couldn't have been a desperate situation. But God! Did he make it back? I called his friend yesterday. Tried, anyways. The whole DAMNED day, starting at noon. They're 4 hours behind local time where he is. I finally got a hold of his friend at 9pm our time, and just checked to see if he'd gotten on-shore safely.

I didn't even ask to speak to him. After his friend told me he was back on-shore and fine, I hung up. I hope that keeps him guessing, suck-faced dork. He could so call me if he wanted to. After, all, I got through, didn't I?! :) Okay, if he reads this entry and sees me calling him a suck-faced dork, I'll be in big trouble :p Hehehe. But hey! At least he'd be alive to whup my butt!

BRING IT! *cackle*

Ta!